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As
the fourth sign of the zodiac, Cancer represents the fourth stage
in the evolution of man and his place in the universe. In Cancer
the need is not one of individual survival as it was in the first
three signs. Here, it is eternal survival through perpetuation of
the species. It is the sign of fertility and nurture, and
Cancerians have strong identification with these matters in one
form or another. It doesn't mean all of them are good cooks or
efficient housekeepers, but they all want to feel part of a
family. They enjoy feeding others as much as they enjoy feeding
themselves. They are also ready to supply emotional nurturing by
"mothering" everyone who appears to be in need. When
upset, they tend to use food as consolation, which in turn,
results in problems with excess weight. As an offshoot of their
sense of familial relationships, they often develop an interest
in genealogy and history in general.
Cancerians are doers. They set out to accomplish things and, one
way or another, they want to obtain their goals. In spite of
their emotional sensitivity, they are strong-willed and have no
trouble expressing what they want, then finding a way to get it.
The Crab is their astrological symbol and there are certain
crab-like gestures directly associated with the behavior of
Cancerians. Just as the crab walks sideways rather than straight
ahead, Cancerians use an indirect approach in accomplishing their
goals. Rather than direct confrontation or request, they are more
apt to resort to using emotional appeal. For example, they will
get others to cooperate by making them feel like part of a
family. At the slightest provocation or threat the crab quickly
hides in the sand or retreats into a shell until safer times are
at hand. Cancerians who feel threatened or suspect that their
attempts may be unsuccessful, often hide their true ambitions
until a more comfortable situation occurs.
Cancerians react emotionally to everything they experience in
life. That is, before they take physical action, before they sort
out the practicality of what they are doing, and before they
reason things out intellectually, they must express their
feelings. They wear their hearts on their sleeves. Many
Cancerians succeed in life because their genuine concern for the
welfare of others inspires loyalty as well as cooperation.
The Moon, celestial guardian of human emotions, rules Cancer. The
biggest struggle for Cancerians is to avoid becoming prisoners of
their own emotions. Though they can be outwardly gregarious, they
are shy and secretive about their personal matters. However, once
they feel comfortable in a situation or relationship, they relax
and completely open up even to the point of dominating the
situation. Not usually ones to suffer in silence, they have to
make an effort not to inflict their moods and endless recitations
of their feelings or emotional troubles on others. Once they
learn to keep excess emotions in control, their intuition can be
remarkably accurate. Their emotional insecurity makes them want
to hang on to things. They hate to throw anything away, and many
end up avid collectors, conservators, and savers of string. It is
equally difficult for them to give up on failed relationships,
and still harder for them to learn the difference between caring
and possessiveness. When they receive criticism, even
constructive criticism, they tend to take it as a personal
indictment instead of using it to attain personal growth and
maturity.
Participation in physical fitness or sports activities becomes an
important, often vital way for Cancerians to work out their
emotional stress. They are especially adaptable to team sports
since they tend to view their team members as part of a
family-like group. Favorite Cancerian sports are swimming,
fishing, sailing and other water activities. They also enjoy
skiing, ice skating, and mountain climbing. Cancerians are
creative. Even those who may not have a particular talent can use
some type of involvement with art, music, or writing as another
method of emotional release, instead of indulging in eating
binges or other destructive habits. Living or spending time near
the water is a relaxing, as well as creatively stimulating
environment for Cancerians.
Cancer colors are white, silver, and pale yellow. Vulnerable
parts of the body are the breasts and stomach. Stomach aches,
food allergies, and hysterics are the usual afflictions of
Cancerians. Cancer rules silver, and the ruby as well as the
pearl are considered Cancerian birthstones. The surroundings of a
beautiful piece of silver are reflected in its shiny polished
surface. Similarly, the emotionally sensitive nature of
Cancerians tends to reflect the people and circumstances
surrounding them. The ruby, a variety of corundum, is one of the
hardest minerals known, while the pearl is soft and easily
scratched. These gems uniquely illustrate the two contrasting
sides of the Cancerian personality; hard and determined as well
as soft and vulnerable. Cancerian flowers are the water lily
(lotus), iris, poppy (white), carnation (white) and southern
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